The Test Of My Life
0I have not posted anything here for quite some time. In fact, Easter came and went and I didn’t have a nice little Easter post either. The truth is, I wasn’t in the mood for it. How could I not be in the mood? Well, I am

human. That’s why. We as human beings go through this life and are faced with changes of all sorts, every day. Changes to financial matters, work-related matters, health matters, relationship matters and the list goes on. It’s times like these that try men’s souls. I always hoped that in my life I saw my deepest and most difficult trials already. If they were behind me, then the rest of my life was going to be great. At 42 years old, that was a good feeling too. But unfortunately, life is not that fair.
My friends, I am facing the biggest trial of my life right now. When I look down, I no longer see two sets of footprints, I see one and thank the Almighty God of Heaven that I still see that one set, because I know my feet are not on the ground. All I can ask is that you pray for this trial in my life. No details will ever be given here, but I may someday start writing again and I may someday just shut this blog down. I am at a crossroads and it’s no longer my decision which road to take. That is all in the hands of the one carrying me through the sand. God Bless
Phil
The Doctrinal Walls of Jericho
0In Joshua ch 6, Joshua is instructed to walk around the walls of Jericho and have seven priests blow their seven trumpets and when the time came, they were to blow a loud blast, the army was to shout, and the walls would come down. This miracle of God is used in many Sunday School lessons and spoken of by those that have never read the Bible. The story is for all who wish to hear it.
Isn’t it too bad that many churches build doctrinal walls for themselves? Many denominations think they are “it” and too often fail to realize that we are all “it” in God’s eyes. Don’t get me wrong, we need doctrine. Without it, we would all be new-agers or budhists or some combination or hybrid of all attempts to reach God. But doctrinal walls should come down if churches want to grow. The single biggest reason I never went to church when I was younger was because I didn’t feel that I would be welcome. Finally, when God pushed me enough and I knew I wanted to know Him more, I went, but it was never because the church I went to was inviting and had an open door for me. It just so happened that on that day, the trumpets blew and the walls came down and I entered in. God was behind me going, God was behind the members welcoming me.
As it turns out, that day in the summer of 1994, I went to a fantastic church and they did not have the doctrinal walls, but the church walls were enough to keep me out until God pushed me. I praise Him for doing so; it changed my life.
So what should we do? We need to meet the people where they are, just like Paul did as he speaks about in 1 Corinthians 9. We need to eliminate any doctrinal walls so that if a baptist comes to you in your Christian church, welcome him. If a Methodist wanders one day into the land of the presbytery, welcome her. If a friend meets an apostolic, they should converse. We are all flesh and blood, carbon and oxygen, synapses and electrical currents. We are not separated in the eyes o
f God and most importantly, neither are the people that are not labeled as any of the above.

Jesus came to establish relationships, not doctrine. He came to save, not separate. He came to show us the way, not tell us to have our own way. What do you think? Isn’t it time we return to the Lord, especially in lands where we are? Shouldn’t we return to the Lord, seek His grace and invite others in to share the love we have found? Give me your thoughts and learn more about Jericho here
Not Make Believe
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My daughter had a friend when she was younger. Her name was Cursey Wheely. At least, I think that is how you spell it. Cursey Wheely would come to play with my daughter whenever there was a need for a friend. Cursey Wheely never let her down and always showed up the instant that my daughter desired to see her. Cursey Wheely, you see, was make-believe.
No, my daughter was never diagnosed with a mental disorder and no, she doesn’t still play with Cursey Wheely. In fact, everyone in the family had forgotten about her until we found a book that had been filled out by my then four year old and my wife, asking who her friends were. Cursey Wheely made the list along with a few other solid organic humans. Many children have a make-believe friend at some point in their childhood. It’s the sign of a good imagination and it helps to fulfill the need for belonging that we all have within us.
Christ is more than a thought or a principle. He is more than a make-believe friend; He is more than someone that we talk to in belief alone, He is real. He is alive and He lives today. But for too many people, Jesus is like Cursey Wheely. He is just someone that we make up and use when we feel lonely or are in a tight spot. But for those that know Him, He is so much more. He is a true friend and an engagement of the spirit and soul. We as humans however, want something larger and more tangible. We therefore try to satisfy that longing for belonging and that need for true relationship by looking for something we can see and touch. We turn to that which has substance and purpose. The problem with is that substance is temporary and purpose is fallible. We need a relationship with Jesus, and yes, it is possible. But you must meet God where He is. However, He is not far away. No, in fact, He is right here, right now. With you this moment. He is reading what you are reading, He is in your thoughts, He is in your life. He is in the world today. We can’t find Him in drugs or alcohol, in television or the internet. Jesus doesn’t have a facebook page or a twitter account, He is not there so don’t look for Him there. He is only a prayer away and He wants, oh so much, to have you know Him more.
Cursey Wheely was an invention of an young girl. Jesus Christ is a fulfillment of a divine plan. Cursey Wheely has been lost in memories and pages of a journal. God wants you to be found in His Son, because without Him, you too will be lost, a fading memory. Know Him! Don’t just believe in Him. KNOW HIM!
How about you? Did you ever have a make-believe friend? Do you have something in your life that you are using to try to replace Jesus? I also encourage you to listen to this podcast which was the idea for this blog post. The God Journey
Does Hell Really Save?
0Fire and brimstone may have been effective in previous centuries, but I have come to believe that preaching someone into hell is not an effective way to spread the Gospel. In fact, the one and only time that Paul speaks of hell is in 1 Corinthians 15 when he claims that Jesus overcame it.
So why do so many church signs say things like “Stop, Drop, and Roll won’t work in Hell” or “There are no fire escapes in hell”. Even a popular Christian rock band known as Newsboys sang a song about it. ”They don’t serve breakfast in hell”. Let me be clear, I am not trying to preach universal reconcilliation, I am not trying to say hell was a doctrine made up by Catholics. It’s in the Bible, but neither Jesus nor Paul preached people into it.

In fact, Jesus said “Come to me all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Why didn’t He say “if you don’t believe me, I am going to throw you into the fire?” I say it’s because when He did speak of people in that regard it
was for those that had already rejected Him.
My point is that if we are going to witness to someone, it would be better to witness God’s love. Speak about what God has for them and not the punishment. Research has shown that people revolt in the face of punishme
nt, but are drawn to love. If you explain what a friend the Lord has become to you, instead of explaining how you have purchased “Fire Insurance”, then the person just might listen. Unless of course you really don’t have a relationship with the Lo
rd and are trying to preach yourself out of hell. In that case, stick around as I speak more on this
Let me know what you think. What are your thoughts on hell and if it is an effective evangelical tool or not.
He Doesn’t Need Defense
0FoxNews recently reported that Miley Cyrus tweeted a photo of physicist Lawrence Krauss that had a controversial quote on it. The physicist stated that we should all be thankful for a star dying instead for Jesus dying. You can read the article yourself by clicking the link above.
That’s not the outrageous part though. What is outrageous is the reaction Miley Cyrus got from Christians. Someone actually tweeted back to her “Go to Hell”. Really? If that was a Christian, then I would like to remind that person what Jesus said in John 13:35 ”By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” and that’s not showing love.
Sure, Ms. Cyrus may have some misunderstanding. Or perhaps her followers had some misunderstanding. Maybe she meant the physicist was Beautiful? Probably not, but we don’t know. We are not God and we don’t know what is in the heart or mind of another. Not the way He knows anyway.
We need to remember that God doesn’t need us to defend Him. He has been around a lot longer than anyone alive today and He has done well for Himself. When we take our apologetics beyond the scriptural evidence and into an area that is human expression only, we have gone too far. In my opinion, the reactions of “Christians” is all too often far worse than those that offend Christianity. That’s sad.
It Takes Two To Fist Bump
0I recently discovered by watching the new Millionaire show (I forget what the real title is) that the famous fist bump that so many do these days was first popularized by the wonder twins. I mean, it makes perfect sense, right? They put their fists together and say “Wonder twin powers….Activate” and then turn into an iceberg and a mountain lion or something like that. That got me thinking about the glory days of super friends
and the hall of justice and the legion of doom. No matter what though, batman and robin always remains my favorite. The dynamic duo. Maybe it was because of the quirky pop out POW and BAM that used to accompany the television show. Two is always better than one. There has to be reason God gave us two eyes, two ears, two nostrils, two sets of teeth, two hands, etc. Two lives too. Jesus said that whoever loses his life for His sake will earn it. Yes, we must give up that first life, in order to have the second. But getting there is where the magic really comes into play. Getting there, that losing of one’s life, involves a new dynamic duo. It involves YOU and JESUS Christ.
Did you ever notice how when Robin was caught, Batman would get him out, or vice versa. When one wonder twin was caught, the other would come to the rescue. When Superman was captured by Brainiac, Wonder Woman would lasso him free. There was always someone to help even the greatest of super heros. That’s how it is with Jesus. When we get caught by the enemy, He rescues us. He always comes in and saves the day. He changes our thoughts, He guides us, He lifts us up and brushes us off. He is the main part of our dynamic duo. Without Him, we would have nothing. Without His love, we would be lost. Without His help in our lives, we would be left to help ourselves and we would fail miserably.
It’s an awesome thing to fall into the hands of a loving God. Even if it is for an occasional fist bump.
Back In The Game
0Welcome to the new CrossDotNet.org website. A blog about faith and tech all wrapped up in one for all of the Christian Geeks out there.
